Damsel in Distress

  Everybody talks about work place harassment , but what about harassment , on the roads?  Oh, it must have been your heels! You must have had inappropriate clothes to entice the other gender. Men are like that, it's the women who need to be careful. Don't give them a chance to harass you. Okay !! Here is what I have to say, to all this.  One day, I had some shopping to do, So I took another route from my office . To shop on my way back home, and enjoy the weather. I noticed one thing, men were scanning me head to toe, no matter what I'm wearing, and if I'm wearing a denim under my Abaya , well they'd even comment " wh*re ". Yes, I heard it. According to them, those who wear denims , even under well covered clothes are not good women.  So, I shopped, I can't remember what now. And while I was minding my own business, a man kept following me on Motorbike . He was wearing western clothes. An expensive helmet and Mask under it, to conceal his identity. E...

 Why is it so controversial?? My Body My Choice!! Its not like, anybody is being affected here. A girl looks at herself in the mirror. Man, I have such big hips. Oh no no,,, God Made you that way, such incredible child bearing hips. 👏 Thank you Sir for checking out my hips. Hips Don't Lie Right?? It took me 33 years to say My Body My Choice. Why?? I lived in fear all my life, thinking maybe I deserved it. Or what went wrong, was it a punishment?? All bodies are beautiful. Why is being beautiful or having a beautiful body a Crime ?? Sure they might have been incredible to check out, that dozens of men have come to Harass to touch my Hips, in the name of fun. On a serious Note, does anybody ever gives it a thought, what a child had gone through, being exposed to sexual touches?? and if nobody cares, why do they care about My Body My Choice?? My Body My Choice means, Yes I have great Hips, they are Mine, and you are not Allowed to Touch, My Body My Choice. Readers Might think I'...