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The Driver of My Nightmares

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 I guess this was the reason, I never liked drivers, it was long embedded in my system, not to trust the drivers. It was just my  Trauma Response . It is very easy to say to a woman, why do you go outside? why do you get in a situation like that? The answer is simple, we women go out to do things, like jobs, and study, sometimes travel to other cities for better medical facilities, and what do we get in the way? TRAUMA! I don't remember my age from the incident, maybe I was a young grad student, I was travelling with my sister, to visit hospital. It was when we were coming back, in public transport. How can I forget? The driver of course. Me and my sister were on the passenger seat, the back was too high that people behind could not see what is happening on the front seat. Yes, that gives the CULPRITS their plain to play well. At first I thought maybe the driver made a mistake, maybe I am just overthinking, Why would he do  that? Even though, he seemed like a drug addict...

7 Reasons Why Men Harass Women and Children

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  Why is being soft and innocent is such a crime?? It’s easy, women and children are easy targets, always at the receiving end of evils of the society. Here are 7 Reasons Why Men Harass Women and Children: Poverty: Poverty often leads individuals down a dark path, where desperation can cloud judgment and morality. The harsh reality is that poverty creates an environment ripe for crime, as those struggling to survive may resort to unethical means to meet their needs. In this sense, poverty can transform the mind into a breeding ground for harmful thoughts and actions, making it easier for individuals to justify their wrongdoings. The impact of poverty extends beyond the individual, affecting countless victims who suffer as a result. When someone in poverty commits a crime, it can leave deep emotional scars on their victims, often leading to lifelong trauma. Unfortunately, many of these victims choose to remain silent, feeling powerless in the face of their suffering. Only a small fr...

My Body My Choice

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 Why is it so controversial?? My Body My Choice!! Its not like, anybody is being affected here. A girl looks at herself in the mirror. Man, I have such big hips. Oh no no,,, God Made you that way, such incredible child bearing hips. 👏 Thank you Sir for checking out my hips. Hips Don't Lie Right?? It took me 33 years to say My Body My Choice. Why?? I lived in fear all my life, thinking maybe I deserved it. Or what went wrong, was it a punishment?? All bodies are beautiful. Why is being beautiful or having a beautiful body a Crime ?? Sure they might have been incredible to check out, that dozens of men have come to Harass to touch my Hips, in the name of fun. On a serious Note, does anybody ever gives it a thought, what a child had gone through, being exposed to sexual touches?? and if nobody cares, why do they care about My Body My Choice?? My Body My Choice means, Yes I have great Hips, they are Mine, and you are not Allowed to Touch, My Body My Choice. Readers Might think I'...